Sean 'Diddy' Combs' Extreme Weight and Appearance Demands for Girls at 'Freak Off' Parties Exposed

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Sean “Diddy” Combs, the influential music mogul, faces mounting allegations of sexual exploitation and abuse related to his notorious “Freak Off” parties. As new details emerge, one of the most disturbing aspects centers on the extreme demands Combs allegedly placed on the women who attended these events. The lavish, drug-fueled gatherings, now at the center of a federal investigation, allegedly required strict adherence to physical standards that objectified and dehumanized the women involved.

According to a party planner who worked closely with Combs between 2004 and 2005, the hip-hop mogul enforced an uncompromising list of requirements for the women invited to his parties. “The girls had to be young, hot, and fit,” the planner told The New York Post. The most glaring of these demands was that no female guest could weigh more than 140 pounds. “We would do a weigh-in if necessary,” the planner revealed, adding that she kept a scale in her car at all times to ensure that the women met Combs’ exacting standards.

The planner went on to describe a specific dress code that was imposed on the women. They were required to wear high heels-no exceptions-and party dresses that were “just enough to cover their butt cheeks” while revealing ample cleavage. “No pants, no jeans, no flat shoes,” she emphasized, explaining that Combs had a zero-tolerance policy when it came to how the women were presented at the events.

Beyond these physical and dress requirements, the planner noted an unsettling practice of “don’t ask, don’t tell” when it came to the age of the women. While the planner said she never personally asked about the age of the attendees, she admitted she believed it was related to alcohol consumption rather than the possibility of underage girls being exploited. “At the time, I was really young myself, and I honestly thought that we weren’t asking their age because of drinking laws,” she said.

As Combs faces federal charges of sex trafficking, racketeering, and transportation to engage in prostitution, these revelations further paint a troubling picture of what allegedly transpired at his infamous parties. Federal agents, during raids on his homes in Los Angeles and Miami earlier this year, uncovered a trove of evidence, including thousands of bottles of baby oil and lubricant, as well as video footage purportedly showing sexual acts at the parties. Authorities believe that Combs may have used the footage to blackmail his alleged victims into attending future events and remaining silent about their experiences.

The party planner, who worked behind the scenes organizing the events but never stayed for the actual parties, claims she had no idea what was happening once the guests arrived. However, women who performed or attended the events have come forward with disturbing accounts. One dancer who performed at Combs’ 2005 MTV Video Music Awards afterparty described how she was offered $1,000 to continue dancing at the mansion afterwards but declined because “it felt shady.” She later learned that other women who attended the afterparty were unwilling to discuss what had taken place.

Combs’ legal team continues to deny all allegations against him, calling the lawsuits “meritless” and part of a “reckless media circus.” In response to the numerous allegations of sexual assault and exploitation, Combs’ attorneys insist that all interactions were consensual. “In court, the truth will prevail,” they stated. However, the growing number of lawsuits, along with the federal criminal case, paints a darker picture of the events.

The allegations surrounding Combs’ parties stretch back over two decades and involve dozens of women. The sexual demands and strict criteria placed on the female attendees, combined with the coercion alleged in multiple lawsuits, suggest a pattern of predatory behavior. Combs is currently being held without bail, and his trial on charges of sex trafficking and racketeering is scheduled for May 2025.

As more individuals come forward with their accounts of what happened at the “Freak Off” parties, the full scope of Combs’ alleged behavior is expected to come to light in court. For many, the extreme demands for the women involved are just the beginning of the horrifying allegations now facing the once-celebrated music mogul.